The
only ‘reservations’ in Mexico are a few ghettos
of
expatriate norteamericanos.
Kate Simon
School
grounds – peaceful – old home of a sculptor
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You
know you are back in Mexico when, at dawn, you hear more roosters than dogs,
more church bells than car horns, and many people singing or playing music. Folks stay up late, and few get up
early. I just arrived in beautiful
Guanajuato, a city nearly at the geographical epicenter of the country. I am here to learn more Spanish and re-immerse
in the Mexican culture I love so much.
On
the flight over, I got a quick reminder of Mexican friendliness. I sat next to a gentleman who, at first, seemed
too sleepy to talk, but we struck up a stimulating conversation that lasted the
whole way. Pepe (nickname for Jose),
from Romita, has been regularly going back and forth to the US for work since
1990, supporting his family back home.
He is one of the lucky ones who has managed to earn his US citizenship,
so his border crossings are not as difficult or scary. During the slow season he comes home to see
his children, now nearly a year older than the last time he saw them and be
with the rest of his extended family. He
doesn’t complain. He is thankful for the
opportunity. He speaks with sparkles in
his eyes, love for his family and country expressed in his melodious voice. He is looking forward to retiring back home
in Mexico, when the time comes.
People
here still take the time to strike conversations with strangers. People here still take the time to sit down
and watch the days go by. People here
still take the time to cook and enjoy tasty food. People here still take the time to make fun
of themselves, not just others. But to
appreciate all of that, we visitors, too, must take the time. Too many come here and want to import their
own ways, denying themselves the many great lessons of this amazing
culture.
The
students in my class want to learn the language, but they insist on staying in
hotels rather than with families. Their
comments being that they don’t want to interact with the families daily, that
they want their own space, complete privacy.
Then they pay for private Spanish tutoring, something I get for free when
interacting with the family I live with or random people I meet.
Passing
by church on way to school
Modern
art fronting ancient mildewing structures
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I
live with Josefina, a wonderful grandmother who, like me, has lost her husband
and is trying to figure out exactly what is next? What is life without our loved one, our other
half? She is still highly active for her
age and insisted on walking me to school (1.5 km) on my first day. Yes – Mexicans are generous to a fault, and
it is difficult to match their generosity.
Another
church, another street café
the
place so quiet this early in the morning
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My
first week is slow. I merely want to
relearn this country a step at a time, so I don’t get overwhelmed. I mainly walk around the city, taking in the exuberance
of form and color as well as the true melting pot this country is, collecting
the many wonderful anecdotes that I can share with you along the way.
Yes
– in the middle of the market
The
day before this Day of the Dead altar was taken down
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Unfortunately,
I arrived just a day after the Day of the Dead celebrations, something I’ve
always enjoyed being a part of. The city
is recovering from the fiestas and the tapetes (carpets of colored sawdust
and/or flowers) and altars decorating the streets are fading away. Even the old market is still covered with the
famous marigolds, their heads now bent down saying their goodbyes until next
year.
Talking
about death is assumed to be a sad subject, but this is not the way the
Mexicans see death. Josefina relates a
story about siblings whose father died about five hours away from where he
lived and, not having the money to have the body shipped over to their town in
a coffin, they stole the corpse and drove him home expertly sitting between two
sisters on the back seat, hoping check points wouldn’t be asking too many
questions. They made it home safely and
without complications. I tell her about
Pomuch, a town in Mexico’s Yucatan Peninsula where locals wash the bones of the
dead during this time. She has never
heard of this part of her Mexican culture.
Singing
is heard every night as I live near the famous ‘Callejon del Beso’ the Alley of
the Kiss, a bit sad since I don’t have a special someone to embrace on the famous
steps. A very narrow alley (68cm or less
than 2 feet wide) where, if you stretched out, you could kiss from a balcony on
one side of the alley to another on the other side. A legend about kissing on the third step
bringing you 15 years of happiness, is also part of the allure. Many couples come here to kiss. Tours of the area are popular with visitors,
I live in the middle of this gentle chaos.
My
view to the left – day time – like an overgrown easel full of colors
Clock
tower over the old Hidalgo Market - not designed by Eiffel as often said
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My
view to the right – night time
University
(white) and Basilica de Nuestra Señora de Guanajuato (yellow)
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Homes
are built on steep hills and the town is nestled in a bowl. It cannot expand, bounded on all sides. New growth is happening outside of these
hills. In this town of 80,000, homes
seem to be competing for height rather than ground space. I live in one that has four stories, but what
a view! The upper patio overlooks the
old university, the old market, and many of the cities’ other famous landmarks. It is beautiful, I lucked out. I had booked sight unseen, trusting all would
turn out well. I asked Josefina about
earthquakes here – thankfully there hasn’t been any. None of these homes are built to withstand
the shock.
The
narrow cobblestone streets, many of which can only be used by pedestrians
follow the serpentine and steep contours of the San Miguel mountains. Some have a 30% grade; high heels beware. I see a woman coming down a sharp decline
ahead of me. She is hanging onto the arm of her companion; not sure she could
take the same route without his help. With
such tall homes the streets can turn into a bit of a maze (medina), it is easy
to get turned around but heading down, will always get you close to the city
center.
Safeguarding
brooms and dust pans around the city
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Mexicans
are nothing if not passionate but visits here are a constant mixture of
exasperation and enchantment, so much beauty mixed with so much garbage, so
much caring mixed with little attention paid to finishing the job or details, the
pathetically mournful also outrageously festive, a constant tension between
order and chaos exists. Mexico is so
often thought of as one homogeneous country, yet it is one of the most complex in
the world with layers upon layers of languages, religions, civilizations, etc. A richness that takes a lifetime to learn and
appreciate.
‘Our
poverty can be measured by
the
frequency and luxuriousness of our holidays.’
Octavio Paz
My
walk to school in the morning lasts about 20 minutes. At that time, the streets are quiet as nearly
nothing opens before 10am. I enjoy this
time the most, as if having the place to myself with only a few people
transporting warm baked goods, in baskets on their head, to the various
restaurants and tiendas, sharing the streets with me. The scenery changes dramatically when I
return, packed with people sitting on anything horizontal, stairs, benches,
sidewalks, sculptures, short posts, handrails, or walking, running, hailing
taxis. Life happens here!
Teatro
Juarez in early morning light
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Hasn’t
changed much in over 100 years
Museum photo from 1905 |
Small
children heading back from school are covered with old fashion aprons, so are
some of the grandmas slowly walking to the market. I don’t remember the last time I saw someone
wear an apron back home.
Quinceanera
picture near the university
Always
a riot of colors and forms
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A
much different style of quinceanera (15 year old girl celebration)
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Parking
is so difficult to come by that some people have their cars washed just to use
up a parking space, not necessarily because they need their car cleaned. I even see someone painting a car while
parked on the side of the road, the dark blue sprays wafting through the air on
some of the nearby pedestrians. No one
seems to care, I cross the street to avoid turning blue.
Heavy
load up the narrow alley by hand
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Near
the park at the base of the hill where I live, I see two men carrying a heavy
drier in a box. They put it down at the
corner of the street and ask me if I can keep an eye on it while they go to
pick up its partner, a washing machine. They
have confidence in a stranger like me but don’t trust that someone might not steal
this heavy box – interesting. I say yes
thinking they probably only need five minutes.
More than twenty minutes go by before they return with the washing
machine. Thankfully I was not in a
rush. From there, it takes four men to
carry it to its final destination. Two
younger men have just been flagged to help, for a tip, I’m sure.
The
same two old guys standing by the bridge overlooking a small river don’t hide
that they are checking out many of the ladies walking by. I see them every morning. I stop to let a pickup with a large statue of
the Virgen, not well tied down, slowly go by.
On the other side is a heavily loaded donkey, a dozen or so bags of
cement tied to its back. We are near a
primary school and it doesn’t seem to notice the noisy children. There are many small non-functioning drinking
fountains around town, probably used to quench the thirst of people and their pack animals
that helped built this city in the past.
Like
the rest of Guanajuato, the University is built on the hill
Many
stories tall with a long frontal staircase – long ladder to success?
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Most
people walk here, even on rainy days.
Owning a car in this city is an exercise in frustration and patience.
There are extremely few drivable roads or parking spaces. The city is designed for walking. The city’s driving tunnels are renown for
being easy to get lost in. Driving here,
in other words, is not for the faint of heart.
Tunnels were first constructed to avoid flooding of the city, but a dam
quickly made that use obsolete so now these tunnels are part of an underworld used
to divert traffic away from the beautiful cobble streets above.
As
the locals walk, their national past time seem to be drinking or eating while
exploring: juices in bags, honeycombs dripping with honey, tacos, ice cream,
fruit salads, popsicles, banana chips, etc.
It
is the dry season, but nature decided to give a nice show of thunder,
lightning, and rain for my first full day here.
The rainy season isn’t normally until May-Aug. It has cleared the air; the colors have been
revived. The weather is mild, and as the
spirit of the people, almost Mediterranean.
Packed full of homes, the place has in colors and textures what it lacks
in greenery.
Overlooking
the city – El Pipila (nickname for gimp or cripple)
Hero
of the Mexican Independence (doesn’t look like a gimp here)
Real
or legend? People can’t seem to agree
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I
happened to arrive during French week at the university. A pleasant surprise. I get to see French movies, should I wish
to. I go to three and, reading the
subtitles in Spanish, helps me learn a few more expressions.
Hey
son, let me get you out of the fountain…
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People
watching
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My
first week is almost over and, although alone, I am enjoying being here for a
while. It is near sundown and the
troubadours (mostly music students) are out and about trying to gather
business, singing to whomever wants to stop, listen, and pay. People who follow them around town will be
drinking bad red wine offered in special containers in the shapes of frogs or
others, kissing on the third step of Callejon del Beso, watching fireworks, and
singing along. Old traditions don’t die
easily in Mexico.
The
true beauty of Guanajuato as compared to the more famously known and manicured nearby
San Miguel de Allende is that it hasn’t been overrun with expats yet. There are thousands in San Miguel de Allende and
only hundreds here. Guanajuato still holds
more of a cultural purity, not as Americanized, but for how much longer? Enjoy while it lasts.
Thrilled that you're there and settling in. Thanks for your beautiful writing and for the wonderful pictures. Can't wait to visit it myself someday. Hope the lessons are going well, and you enjoy your return to Mexico. xo
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